08/01/2017
Of course, every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way and the causes of divorce are different for everyone. But here are the most common factors that can precipitate a divorce. According to science and statistics.
Your girlfriend had fewer than three partners!
Scientists from the University of Utah found that Russian girls who had less than three partners before the wedding, get divorced much more often than more experienced peers. Apparently, this is due to the fact that Russian woman who has had more relationships understands what kind of man suits her for the role of husband better. And less experienced ladies often rely only on love, which is not always durable.
Someone from your close people divorces!
According to the research of scientists at the University of Washington, couples whose friends are in a state of divorce are beginning to think about divorce. Firstly, the divorce does not seem to be anything taboo and forbidden, especially if the divorced friends got out of it alive. In addition, the courage of friends who have decided to take such a step inspires you to think whether you are so happy in your marriage.
One of you confessed the cheating!
On the one hand, honesty is fine. On the other hand, it can destroy even the strongest marriage. Especially if this honesty is "Honey, I accidentally cheated you on a business trip, and now I'm ashamed, feel uncomfortable, and I want to repent." Even if the wife forgives you generously (which happens, though infrequently), cheating will be a gloomy cloud hanging over the bright beach of your marriage.
Routine and planned work at home!
Norwegian scientists have come to curious conclusions: it turns out that clear and strict rules in the family are a popular reason for divorce. This includes the schedule of cleaning, watering the cat, repairing flowers and stuff of the same kind. A strict schedule deprives the relationship of freshness, and people feel like a second job, where you need to stick to the plan. So be creative! Change duties! Let her cook dinner tonight, and you'll play with the cat.
Mismatch of working schedules!
Scientists of the Department of Sociology at Harvard University do not lose time: for example, recently they studied relationships in more than 6 thousand pairs, the age of partners in which ranged from 18 to 55 years. It turned out that if the partners do not have a working schedule, then their relationship is tenser. This is due to the fact that there is very little time left for communication and joint activities. So the more closely your work schedules, the more chances for a happy family life.
