11/25/2009
Psychologists say modern families lack conversations. But not trivial discussions of the day passed or mutual friends, but some sincere talks that help better understand each other. What is the way to speak about important things with a lady from Russia?
The first thing is not to hide feelings and anxieties. Men often don’t share worries with a foreign wife thinking she won’t be able to help or wishing not to worry her. Such behavior is absolutely wrong, particularly in the modern world cultivating loneliness. The key lies in the way you talk.
First, imagine you have 30 seconds to express your worries. Do it and then ask your foreign bride to repeat the idea. Then, evaluate if the foreign girl expressed your idea exactly. By doing this you may be surprised to see how your partner gets the information. When repeating the idea of your mailorderbride you may omit something important as most people have no habit of listening attentively to each other.
