11/22/2009
The first and the main mistake is absolute openness and putting on display the feelings. Word has it that there should be some mystery in every foreign woman. But the same is true with men. Never open yourself to a foreign pen pal you are interested in. She should think of you. If the girl sees you through in 30 minutes or from the first letter don’t expect anything positive further.
The second mistake is passing the initiative on to the single Ukrainian woman. If you think that by doing this she will fall in love with you at once, you are wrong. Ukrainian ladies are looking for a man who will solve all the questions himself. Be the leader. For example, don’t ask “Where shall we go today?”, a better variant is “Where would you like to spend time tonight?” (this way you have the last word).
The last mistake is to impeccable fulfillment of all the wishes of the Ukrainian girl. Every Ukrainian bride is looking to marry a man who will present flowers, gifts, and so on, but not the man who will present himself.
