02/17/2010
Any family discussion has several pitfalls. At first sight, it seems you have nothing to divide – you love each other. But it is only at first sight. As misunderstanding and reluctance of your beloved Russian woman to make concessions can be misinterpreted. So here is some advice for you.
Search for benefits. Argue your reply from the point of view: “What is your benefit?” you should evaluate the situation in detail.
Limit the time of discussion. Despite talking on and on and not to the point, you can discuss the situation in a laconic and well-defined form.
Avoid direct criticism. Remember that your goal is not to destroy the Ukrainian girl, but to achieve peace in the family. that is why your critical remarks are inappropriate.
Listen to your foreign bride. Unfortunately, we usually try to win and show our supremacy and not come to an agreement.
