05/02/2017
Have you dreamed of running away together on some paradise island, where there would be only the sea, the sun, palms and your love? Excellent! But sometimes such vacation becomes a real nightmare for two. To avoid mistakes and conflict situations, use 8 golden rules of a happy holiday with your loved one.
1. Decide how you see your joint holiday.
To avoid misunderstandings and disappointments, be sure in advance that your preferences concerning kind of vacation match.
2. Plan the program in advance
Having decided on the place, try at least in general outlines to make a program of your joint recreation. Look at the Internet photos, read reviews about your tour, in order to know what excursions you will order for sure.
3. Discuss the theme of the work.
Unfortunately, modern business often poses challenges that need to be resolved as quickly as possible. Many people work even on vacation, and this is one of the most important reasons for quarrels during the holidays. Ideally, you need to leave the laptop at home and not answer the phone, but not everyone can afford it.
4. Avoid Unpleasant Topics
On vacation, it is necessary to maintain a harmonious atmosphere. One of the major tour operators conducted a survey and found out that four out of five pairs quarreled on vacation, and in the overwhelming majority of cases, the quarrel was not the circumstances of the rest, but the old problems.
5. Stay Optimistic
The poll, which we talked about, revealed another, very paradoxical fact - some people said that resting ... causes them stress. It can happen to you or your Russian partner because you have changed the habitual place, gastronomic habits, sleep time ... and in general, traveling is a tiresome thing! But is it worth giving a bad mood even a chance to spoil what you have been preparing for months. Come to your senses! Put on rose-colored glasses! No reproaches, especially tears!
6. Count the money
Vacation is a costly thing. To begin with, it is important to determine how much money your couple can spend on the tour and take with you. And who will decide on how to spend it. In any case, personal money in a certain amount should be for everyone, so as not to ask the partner to give some money for ice cream, a cocktail, and other trifles.
7. Select personal time
In ordinary life, each of us has his own rhythm and his hobbies. Therefore, allow your companion to smoke hookah alone, drink beer with new acquaintances, if he wishes so, and have some time for yourself playing a game of tennis, lying around by the pool or going on a shopping trip.
8. Seduce (advice for Russian girls)
Vacation is the time when the laws of habitual behavior can be slightly moved apart and show him that you are that little thing. Try all your charms for seduction, only gradually, otherwise, it will be a shock. Start with the fact that, beautiful and tanned, you put on your shortest sexy dresses, surprise the deep neckline and ... enjoy him even more.
