05/28/2018
Very often Russian and Ukrainian brides turn to dating sites after failing in a marriage in which they already have child. In such a situation it is very important for a girl to meet someone who will become a good husband to her and a good friend to her child. These relationships are very fragile at the beginning, but the right approach can make you (you and her child) inseparable friends forever.
Here are a few recommendations on this topic:
- Do not be too much active with gifts and attention, as well as with expressing your opinion about child’s ideas or behavior. Look closely at the child. Your caution, in the beginning, will be good in building good relations with both - your Russian wife, and with her son or daughter. And a surprise made in time is more impressive than the daily attack with small gifts.
- Shared hobbies and leisure activities. This time will unite the new family even more. It is advisable at the same time to choose such types of entertainment, where everyone will be interested.
- Never compare children! This situation implies the presence of children in previous relationships with both partners in the formed pair. Specialists strongly recommend not to derogate merits of one child in relation to another, even if the comparison is obvious and reasoned. Children are all unique, and it is in your power to help the child to open up more in a new environment
In general, be a positive example and the main assistant in the new conditions for the child - a new country, people, school, and language. Without pressure, but with care, give advice or help in any given situation. Do not criticize. Be a hospitable host of the country that should become sweet home to a small as yet guest.
Good luck and be happy!
