02/03/2017
Buddhism is the oldest and the most adaptable to all sorts of teachings world religion. The wisdom of Buddhist philosophy is easy to comprehend, just select the closest its postulates. Here are 20 most important lessons of this religion, which will change the life of your beautiful girl from Russia and you.
1. Happiness is within us, not outside. All our life we seek happiness in the world. We spend time and energy to find it, to get an approval of others and to get a consolation. Sooner or later, everyone understands that we are looking for in a wrong place. Look inside yourself. We have everything to be happy. We just do not use it.
2. Be grateful. For all. For good and for bad. Good makes us happy, and the bad - wise, because it gives us experience. Pleasure and pain are part of our way.
3. Celebrate your victories. Do not take for granted everything that happens to you. Savor every success - even the smallest.
4. Every person appears in our life with a purpose. No chance. And only we decide to learn or reject him.
5. Believe. Just know that in the most difficult times, the universe will help you. It does not give more trials than we can bear.
6. Do not take things too much to heart. Someday you'll be sorry that you suffered from things that were not worth your tears. The actions of other people are reflections of what is happening in their personal lives. It has nothing to do with you. Happy people do not hurt others. Whoever hurts you, he is deeply unhappy. You have nothing to do with it.
7. Nature heals. Walking in the fresh air, views of the beautiful scenery, the sound of water, the heat of the sun, all these work better for the health than any doctor. Get the "prana" (energy) from the world with the simplest and most affordable way.
8. Awareness of the problem is half of its solution. To recover, you need to understand and accept your fears and weaknesses, and to send them a bright beam of light. The only way to get rid of them is to pass through them. To See the truth is hurt. But it does not solve the problems that we drive them in.
9. Perfectionism is an illusion. Relax. Allow yourself to make mistakes and to be happy whatever the result is.
10. The World Around is a mirror. What we love in others is a reflection of what we love in ourselves. What saddens us in others is an indicator of what to look out for in ourselves.
11. Learn to forgive. First of all, it is necessary for you, and not to the person who offended you. By forgiving, you gain peace and freedom that you deserve. Leaving the offense, you grass your soul and stop yourself to live at full capacity.
12. As soon as you become sincere, things will change. Listen to yourself. What do you really want? Often the most difficult is to answer yourself honestly to this question.
13. Surround yourself with people who love and support you. To reciprocate. Life is too short to spend it on those who do not believe in you and criticizes you, depriving forces.
14. The more you give, the more you get. This is the law of karma. Share your wisdom, love, talent. Share easily and do not regret. Believe me, you will quickly see how many wonderful things in this life will back to you.
15. Say "Yes" to everything that makes you happy. Talk irreconcilable "No" to all that warps you. Time is the most valuable resource that is not renewable. Spend it wisely. There is only one life.
16. Sometimes we outgrow friendships and disagree with others. It's not bad, it does not mean that the friends are bad. Just our paths diverge and everyone has his own way. Keep them in your heart, but if they start to hurt or hinder you, then it's time to set the distance and let your friendship go.
17. Fear is a very good indicator of what we really want and what we need in this life. Let it be your compass and enjoy exciting adventures, to which it leads you.
18. Be grateful for all that you have in this world. So you create a space around yourself for even greater abundance, attracting happiness, love, health and prosperity.
19. Live in the present. This is the only thing that we have now. The past is gone, the future does not come. Learn from the mistakes of the past and enjoy the pleasant memories, but do not cling to them and do not let them chase you. Dream about the future, but without fanaticism and obsession. Love now - just living a life "here and now", you will experience happiness.
20. Tell your closest people how much you love them. Tell them about it constantly. These things can’t be too much.
